10-28-22

10/28/2022

Sex was never meant to be “cookie cutter.” 

Sex is the absolute connection to ourselves, our connection to God. 

Sex is our truth-in a sense if we are hiding any fetishes, turn ons, etc that we like we are hiding in our lives in such a bigger way. Not that you have to shout these from the mountain tops but acknowledge them with yourself- do not be ashamed. 

Life has so many facets, why wouldnt sex? We should see our shadows and our partners' shadows during sex-this is such a great way to know your boundaries as well and not be hurt, offended or ashamed if they say ok too much. You are still loved and respected if it was “too much.” Sex is so primal. We should experience it all and to be shared for being in the cosmos with all bearing is blasphemy!!

Choke me but don’t kill me. 

Slap me but don’t hurt me

Degrade me but love and respect me. 

The first step is letting go of it has to be “penetration” in the common way. 

Penetrates my soul. 

Understanding that sex is a physical pleasure while we are human but that's not all it is. 

It is so much more. The galaxies. There are so many galaxies. 

The Ultimate Vulnerabilities. 

The physical need to feel good is very human, then again that’s the ultimate conundrum. Bring part of this world but not of it. 

The physical need to feel good is not connection.

Sex, making love, in the connection then you have the physical, spiritual and beyond. 

So much of our lives we’re compartmentalized. We need to be one-whole-sex.